My Granny lived in a tiny house on First Street in Hominy, Oklahoma.
What hazy things I can remember, were from our sporadic family visits,
usually on the way from one place to another new place to live.
Military families move often.
In my child’s memory, the house did not seem all that small.
I remember it had wooden walls and faded linoleum floors,
I remember the covered front porch, living room,
two bedrooms and a kitchen. I loved the kitchen most of all.
There was a mere hint of a back porch with a wringer washer.
In the kitchen, a window above the sink beside the stove,
a curtained pantry with lots of shelves filled with jars
of green beans or squash or tomatoes or apples Granny canned
The bathroom was through the back, rickety screened porch
outside. This was a one person outhouse. It stood off to the right
of Granny’s garden. She grew some righteous okra; the yellow and brown
Hibiscus-like flowers stood waving on thick stalks taller than she was.
The outhouse smelled like what it was. My older sister
once locked me in and said the spiders would get me. I
returned the favor one night…she was bit by a black-widow
spider and our parents had to driver her to Pawhuska,
some distance away. I can’t remember a spanking but there might have been one.
I am sure it cost money that was night as by then we were a family of seven.
The outhouse was fumigated the next day and the smell of fumigation mixed
With normal outhouse scents lingered. On our next visit there was an indoor bathroom
carved from the rickety back porch and built my grown cousins.
It was nice to have a place inside with a real bathtub and a door and no spiders that did not stink
plus a real flush toilet. “Living in tall cotton” daddy said.
I think that was like “eating high on the hog” and other sayings he said
that I remember still, sixty eight plus years ago.
This was the house where my daddy was born, and twenty-three years
later, where my sister was born. The same bed Granny slept in.
I saw the house again when my cousin drove me past it, the last time
I was in town nine years ago now. It was a tiny, barely visible, shingled shack,
Left to rot in the Oklahoma sun, “burned down by some Crack addicts” she said.
I had no words except to murmur “oh my”. A lump in my throat,
as we slowly drove past the weed-covered lot, and then turned around
in a filling station on the highway, and headed back in to town.